Wordless Wednesday - Fearless Female - Catherine Grace

Something is going to have to be done with this damaged photo. It doesn't do justice to the beautiful, strong and fearless female within its margins. Stay tuned. 

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Scrappy Gen

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Fearless Females: Single Mothers

What makes a woman fearless? Perhaps she is born fearless, or perhaps she earns her fearless title due to life's circumstances. Both my father's and my mother's paternal grandmothers earned their fearless titles the hard way. Both women, separated by time and family of birth, presumably fell in love, married, had children and then were promptly deserted. 

Irene Hammond

Catherine Grace

Both desertions occurred between 1910 and 1930. After the Who Do You Think You Are episode with Kim Cattrall, whose grandfather also left his family, there was some discussion among genealogists about fact that desertions were more common during this era. The evidence in my family sadly backs up this assertion.

My two fearless great grandmothers went on alone to raise these two kind, thoughtful and intelligent men and their siblings. 

Stanley Brainard, Son of Irene Hammond

Edward Smith, Son of Catherine Grace

These men my great grandmothers raised became, in their turn, good and loving fathers. It takes guts to be a single mother. Many of that era probably gave up some or all of their children. They could have chosen this path. It would have been easier. I am so thankful to my fearless great grandmothers, who met their challenges with strength and raised the men I remember with love every day of my life. 

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Scrappy Gen

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Lisa Alzo of The Accidental Genealogist offered us a series of writing prompts called Fearless Females to celebrate Women's History Month. Thank you Lisa! My posts might not follow your prompts exactly, but they will portray Fearless Females!

Fearless Females: Bubbie Brings the Fight to Washington

Lisa Alzo of The Accidental Genealogist offered us a series of writing prompts called Fearless Females to celebrate Women's History Month. Thank you Lisa! My posts might not follow your prompts exactly, but they will portray Fearless Females!

According to her family, Sarah Brisk Shoer was a strong individual. She was certainly determined. The young man she loved had emigrated from Latvia to the United States. Although very young, she followed him to Marquette, Michigan just a little over a year later. Sarah was traveled alone and may have told the ticket agent she was going to see her 'brother'.

from 30 Jun 1909, NY Passenger List, Ship Caronia, Image 74, Line 20

Mendel Shoer and Sarah Brisk were married on 8 February 1910 in Marquette. Their marriage lasted 49 years until Mendel's death in 1959. 

Many women after almost fifty years of marriage and the death of their spouse would just sit back, relax and enjoy their children and grandchildren. This was not the case for Sarah, who was called Bubbie by the family. It seems she was a bit of an activist and we have the pictures to prove it. 

Credit: Nate Fine Photo Jan 5, 1965, Photo in Shoer Collection, Gift of Amy Maas

Bubbie is second from the right. You can identify her by her ankles. Please notice the details; nylons, polished shoes, best clothes, jewelery and purses. They are going somewhere special. Zoomed into the photo, you can read the ribbons; Medicare Now and Massachusetts. 

 

Undated Photo, Photo in Shoer Collection, Gift of Amy Maas

Here are the same women standing next to a bus. Bubbie, again identifiable by her bowed legs, is on the far left next to the sign. They have donned coats and boots and appear to be getting ready to board the bus. Could they actually going all the way to Washington? In 1965, Bubbie was about 77 years old. That's a long bus ride. 

 

Undated Newspaper Clipping, Shoer Collection

See what I mean about determined? In January 1965, the Medicare battle was heating up and these seniors were organized and brought to Washington. They were not forced. They must have felt strongly enough about the importance of Medicare that they were willing to leave their comfortable homes and ride to Washington. What did they do once there? Perhaps another family member will fill us in on more details. 

How lucky MJ's family was to have such a Bubbie. She is probably the source of much of the family's strength and willingness to do what is necessary, whether leaving the old country for a better life in the new or riding a bus to Washington in the middle of winter. There are a lot of characters among descendants of Sarah Brisk and Mendel Shoer and the world is better for it. 

Happy Thursday!

Scrappy Gen

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